Testimonials from New Mothers...
- "Birth in Peace" Doula Services, NYC, The Hamptons, Long Island
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"I can't imagine what my son's birth experience would have been like without Jessica being there. My husband and I initially weren't sure we wanted a doula; after all, we'd taken a childbirth prep class and figured we could handle it. We decided to use Jess, figuring an extra support person "couldn't hurt".
In the weeks leading up to my labor she made herself as available to us as we needed. She happily and promptly responded to any questions we had. When I went into labor a few days before my due date, Jess dropped everything and came right over. My husband and I were `consulting our class notes'; Jess, however, had actually been through it. Not only is Jessica a doula, but she's a mother of two, having had her own birthing experiences which inform and guide her.
She immediately jumped in and gave me physical support, breathing guidance, and emotional reassurance. Though my husband was a fantastic support, there is nothing quite like the support of a woman who has been through her own labors and deliveries. Even amidst the challenges of labor, Jess could elicit a smile or a laugh from me. Her calm, reassuring, confident presence, her physical stamina, her good cheer, and her tireless encouragement made her an indispensable part of a very challenging labor. She helped me cope with the pain physically, mentally, and emotionally. I am grateful to have had her there and can confidently say you'd be lucky to have her by your side during your amazing, unforgettable birthing experience. (By the way, she also takes great pics of mommy and baby!)"
Samantha Honig
"I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes with my first pregnancy. Subsequently I was induced at 40 weeks which unfortunately led to a c-section due to failure to progress. When my husband and I decided to add to our family we made a conscious decision to opt out of a repeat c-section. I was not convinced that the c-section had been the right choice but often time in a first pregnancy people tend to put all faith in their doctors advice, as had we. This time we had done more research and felt that a midwife and doula would be a better fit for our second birth.
After searching for a doula we found the worlds best, Jessica Bellofatto on the DONA website. We set up an appointment and Jessica came to our house. She was very informative and supportive with all the options we preferred, such as using an epidural, and attempting our VBAC. We met once again before the actual delivery in which we got to know each other a bit better and went over exactly what would happen when I was in labor.
When I felt like labor was beginning I called Jessica to let her know how I was feeling. It was 11pm but I was able to reach her right away. She offered to come to my house and assist me in relaxing and feeling more comfortable until I felt ready to go to the hospital. Although this was the plan, after about 10 minutes we called her back and asked her to meet us at the hospital. I was feeling slightly uncomfortable after she arrived due to the contractions. Jessica was able to use some great message techniques to get me through each contraction. When the labor became more intense she was able to suggest different positions for increased comfort. Having her there was wonderful for my relaxation and also for getting my mind focused on other things rather than the contractions. My husband also felt her presence was of value to him. Jessica was able to give me a sense of calm which allowed my husband to feel calm and confident in the labor process. She was also a great person to joke with, making the whole process more enjoyable.
Jessica was by our side every step of the way; through the overnight hours, as I pushed our second son into the world at 10am and for an hour after the delivery was over. After the disappointment of our first delivery, Jessica made this experience wonderful. She was just what we needed to fulfill the delivery we desired."
Jennifer Terry
"Jessica provided me with much needed emotional and physical support during both my pregnancy and delivery. She is one of the reasons I have since pursued a career as a birth partner as well. Her service is invaluable and every expecting woman should have her at their side! She is dedicated to her work and it is reflected in all that she does. Thank you Jessica!"
Melissa Mitchell
